From "We & Us" to "Me & I"
Searching for your own identity
Who am I and who am I without my twin sister? An almost identical life path, constant comparisons, underlying competitive behavior or remorse and loneliness when my twin sister Jessyca and I were separated from each other brought us to the brink of despair. At the same time, we didn't even know whether our own wishes and needs also applied to our twin sister or not. At first, Jennyfer, I didn't understand my sister Jessyca's longing to travel the world and get to know herself as an individual. One day she left and I came to a point in my life where I asked myself for the first time: "Who am I without my twin and who do I want to be?" I couldn't answer this question, I just felt Being a twin no longer felt easy. It was only through reflection and work with myself as an individual that I realized how emotionally dependent I was on my twin sister and vice versa. By immersing myself in my previous areas of life, I solved entrenched belief patterns, fears and doubts about how I could live as a twin. This also included finding a new way of communicating with my twin sister: open, honest, non-judgmental & supportive. The path to get there was certainly not easy and it took a lot of courage and trust. But the deep love for each other is the constant anchor that allows me, and also my twin sister Jessyca, to lead a self-determined life today. Detached from each other but still connected.
The Vision
The more we dealt with being twins, the more we asked ourselves how other twins were doing on their journey. The answers were sobering. There were no corresponding guides or books about it. This planted the seed for Twins Essence. There is no right or wrong which life construct Gemini chooses. We have made it our (life) mission to accompany those who feel the same inner desire to be perceived as an individual and want to build a self-determined life as a twin.
